Today is my birthday. Sunday, September 27. I've had quite a f
Today is my birthday. Sunday, September 27. I've had quite a f
Today is my birthday. Sunday, September 27. I've had quite a few birthdays, many good memories, but this is the first birthday in my entire life that I am alone. I have three loving, caring, helpful daughters, but all three live in other states and have their own lives, families, and jobs to maintain. I assure them I will be all right here by myself. But I see I will have to choose carefully how to get through special days. Not just on my birthday today -- I will be alone on Thanksgiving, on Christmas, on New Year's Eve. Just me and my rollator in this house that used to comfortably fit our family of five. I have materials for possible hobbies that I have not had time to try -- watercolors and a keyboard, still new in their packaging. I recently bought a Mah Jongg set -- a challenging and interesting game. So I have choices to make my special days different and pleasant. I used to long for a quiet house. Now that's what I have and I wish I did not.
HappyNew : Can you sell your home and move by one of them that would be the best thing and then if you need help, you have one of them there. Happy birthday.
Today is my birthday. Sunday, September 27. I've had quite a few birthdays, many good memories, but this is the first birthday in my entire life that I am alone. I have three loving, caring, helpful daughters, but all three live in other states and have their own lives, families, and jobs to maintain. I assure them I will be all right here by myself. But I see I will have to choose carefully how to get through special days. Not just on my birthday today -- I will be alone on Thanksgiving, on Christmas, on New Year's Eve. Just me and my rollator in this house that used to comfortably fit our family of five. I have materials for possible hobbies that I have not had time to try -- watercolors and a keyboard, still new in their packaging. I recently bought a Mah Jongg set -- a challenging and interesting game. So I have choices to make my special days different and pleasant. I used to long for a quiet house. Now that's what I have and I wish I did not.
HappyNew : Wishing you a happy birthday today! 
HappyNew : I keep reminding myself, and I'll mention it to you too, you're never really alone... Despite loss, heartache, heartbreak, you're not alone. Even when you're longing for touch... I got a hug tonight from a friend and it made my week - which has truthfully been horrendous. Hope you have something similar soon. My 2 cents... Open yourself to new experiences, new friends, just renew. Rediscover your own self. Never forget, never regret. And reach out anytime. ✌️
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HappyNew: happy birtyday! I have had times where the family is with their in-laws for the holidays, and I will usually find a place to volunteer that day. Sometimes you can volunteer at hospitals to man just the information desk, so that people that are working that day can go and get the lunch that the hospital provides to them. Hoping you find a fun and relaxing way to enjoy your birthday!
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Today is my birthday. Sunday, September 27. I've had quite a few birthdays, many good memories, but this is the first birthday in my entire life that I am alone. I have three loving, caring, helpful daughters, but all three live in other states and have their own lives, families, and jobs to maintain. I assure them I will be all right here by myself. But I see I will have to choose carefully how to get through special days. Not just on my birthday today -- I will be alone on Thanksgiving, on Christmas, on New Year's Eve. Just me and my rollator in this house that used to comfortably fit our family of five. I have materials for possible hobbies that I have not had time to try -- watercolors and a keyboard, still new in their packaging. I recently bought a Mah Jongg set -- a challenging and interesting game. So I have choices to make my special days different and pleasant. I used to long for a quiet house. Now that's what I have and I wish I did not.
HappyNew : Happy birthday to you! I apologize. I used to do the monthly birthday thread but less and less members were posting their special day so I just fell out of the habit. Anyway, enjoy your special day friend!
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HappyNew : Happy Birthday! As a suggestion, find what you like to do. Possibly, prayer groups through your or any church. Get out for walks, take up gardening, go to places that you can meet new people.
BrendaT: is having a tea party in October with ladies. That might be a good place to meet some new friends. Have a Blessed and Beautiful Day!
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HappyNew : Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day, and may your happy memories carry you through throughout the year ahead. I hope you have some friends to help you celebrate, and you do something you enjoy and love doing. Take care and Enjoy, and sending Hugs your way.
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HappyNew : Happy birthday, my sweet and dear friend! Are you still in Louisiana? I think I recall reading here that you sold your KW home. I know you recently lost your husband and that adjustment is very real. In some ways, you never completely adjust.
I recall that you have always been active- working in the garden, community center , wellness. Are you still staying involved?
I echo the questions from others about the possibility of relocating to be near one of your daughters. You could live close by and still have your independence. My son desperately wanted me to move in with their family. I valued my independence too much. So when a home near mine came on the market he purchased it and now he and his family are my neighbors! It has been a perfect situation for all of us. I help them out and they help me out. My home is busy again.
Another idea that my nephew's mother-in-law has found that works for her: She rents an Airbnb for a month at a time in the same area that both of her children live in (different states). She rents them at a long term discount since she stays for a month and chooses off season also for lower rent. She isn't ready to leave her own home or hometown permanently yet, but this has been a very good solution and will make the transition easier when the day comes that she needs to relocate to be closer full time.
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HappyNew : You are dealing with a huge adjustment in your life. You need more to time before making any decisions. But hopefully you can visit your family some or vice versa. You are doing things to keep busy and that is important.
HappyNew : Happy Birthday! Sending you a big birthday hug! ❤️ « Back to Chat
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