I put tracking software on my ex's computer, I constantly checked his phone, I went through all his stuff to check for magazines/DVD's.
@xjamiex:
That's beyond excessive. Do you do that to your current boyfriend as well? I agree that your ex watching that stuff & letting it consume him is definitely a problem but I'm sure even you know that's not normal or regular. The majority of porn watching men are NOT like that. Don't let one ruin the rest. You might like it if you have it a chance.
I think that as long as it's immoderation it's fine, & even fun to watch together. No lactating or mom & daughter's (gag to both), but normal regular porn, lol. I'm confident enough in my relationship & my own body that porn is enjoyable together And my husband is the sexiest man alive to me, so trying to say that's missing couldn't be further from the truth. 4951