I don't celebrate the death of a family memeber every year for decades... i do wish they'd tone it down a bit. Kinda tired of hearing about it all the time. it happened. it sucked. it's over. we're rebuilding.
@rmille34: yes i understand, but if we don't remember and honor those who lost thier life, at no fault of their own, we are destined to have it happen again!
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