I'll just use mine as an example.I had suspicions but was always told "No, you're crazy. I don't have time."Â This friends of ours (originally his) covered him and his wife even knew. (Now they've remained my friends after all this BS but besides the point.)Â I wanted to know, even asked but no one told me the truth.I don't know if I could hold that in now.
@theplaceboutique:
What difference would it have made had you known earlier? Your marriage is over anyway, right? Either way, it seems like it would have been the same result. Plus, as
@beastmode said, there are cases where both sides are cheating, know it, and live with it, and don't want a Nosy Nellie getting involved. Just my opinion. 4951