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by: theplaceboutique Active Indicator LED Icon 4 OP 
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 7:54am  
If you knew / saw your friend's partner cheating, would you tell them?I feel like this is a double edged sword sometimes. 4951
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buffaloglenn Active Indicator LED Icon 11
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 7:57am  
No way - their business.  I wouldn't even tell a sibling if I caught their spouse cheating.  Their issue, not mine.  Inject yourself in their business, and now you will be the problem.  4951
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theplaceboutique Active Indicator LED Icon 4 OP 
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 7:58am  
Exactly @buffaloglennFew years back I knew of a man cheating on his wife several times and I kept my mouth shut.  Yet since I've had it happen to me, I don't know if I could. And I know they always kill the messenger. 4951
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ZMAN Active Indicator LED Icon 10
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 7:59am  
Exactly @buffaloglennFew years back I knew of a man cheating on his wife several times and I kept my mouth shut.  Yet since I've had it happen to me, I don't know if I could. And I know they always kill the messenger.

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Drop an anonymous email. done and done. 4951
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theplaceboutique Active Indicator LED Icon 4 OP 
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:00am  
@zmanI think that's probably the best way to go. 4951
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~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:06am  
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beastmode Active Indicator LED Icon 12
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:07am  
I have encountered this and I would not do it. Unless it impacts me is some way none of my business. Besides, what if the person really didn't want to know or they are also doing it. Now I am the chump. 4951
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theplaceboutique Active Indicator LED Icon 4 OP 
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:25am  
I'll just use mine as an example.I had suspicions but was always told "No, you're crazy. I don't have time."  This friends of ours (originally his) covered him and his wife even knew. (Now they've remained my friends after all this BS but besides the point.)  I wanted to know, even asked but no one told me the truth.I don't know if I could hold that in now. 4951
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buffaloglenn Active Indicator LED Icon 11
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:40am  
I have encountered this and I would not do it. Unless it impacts me is some way none of my business. Besides, what if the person really didn't want to know or they are also doing it. Now I am the chump.

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This ^^^^^^ 4951
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gigem09 Active Indicator LED Icon 7
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:42am  
Depends on how close of friends we are. If it is my best friend then absolutely. If it is someone I know or someone  I was friends with years ago then no. I don't need to get in their drama. 4951
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buffaloglenn Active Indicator LED Icon 11
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:42am  
I'll just use mine as an example.I had suspicions but was always told "No, you're crazy. I don't have time."  This friends of ours (originally his) covered him and his wife even knew. (Now they've remained my friends after all this BS but besides the point.)  I wanted to know, even asked but no one told me the truth.I don't know if I could hold that in now.

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What difference would it have made had you known earlier?  Your marriage is over anyway, right?  Either way, it seems like it would have been the same result.  Plus, as @beastmode said, there are cases where both sides are cheating, know it, and live with it, and don't want a Nosy Nellie getting involved.  Just my opinion. 4951
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theplaceboutique Active Indicator LED Icon 4 OP 
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 8:43am  
@buffaloglennIt would have made a hell of a difference LOL. It would have kept from getting married, instead of 8 girls later.LMAO 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 9:30am  
I love my friends, but I do not own their behavior. What they do in their personal lives is 100% their business and 0% mine.  Whether I know or don't know anything about their extracurricular activities, I know and see NOTHING. If they tell me about it, I know and see NOTHING. If I suspect something, I know and see NOTHING. 4951
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theplaceboutique Active Indicator LED Icon 4 OP 
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 9:36am  
I'm pretty 50/50 on this.But probably if it ever happened again and came down to it, my mouth might be shut unless it came out from under the influence.That's a different issue. 4951
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~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 9:38am  
Unless you catch them in the act or doing something that makes it obvious, you really have no idea if there is any cheating going on. If they are that careless..they will get caught on their own with no help from you.
 
I stay out of other people's lives, I've got my own issues taking up my time. 4951
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theplaceboutique Active Indicator LED Icon 4 OP 
~ 6 years ago   Jul 12, '17 9:48am  
If they are going on dates with said person other than partner, or kissing them right in front of you. Sure why not, drop some anonymous email or text work. LOLBut unless I see it with my own two eyes, it's not leaving my mouth. 4951
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