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by: Heathur Active Indicator LED Icon 12 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:36pm  
Do you think it's okay to simply dance with someone other than your spouse/ significant other at a bar? If no, why not? 4951
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Brat Active Indicator LED Icon 15
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:42pm  
Do you think it's okay to simply dance with someone other than your spouse/ significant other at a bar? If no, why not?
 
@Heathur: Hmm...That's a touchy subject. IMO opinion, if I trusted the person then yes, but if its one of those songs that requires some "grinding", then hell no. I've been at a bar before when I was tired and my ex wanted to dance. I wasn't up for it so he went two-stepping with someone else. I watched the entire time and was cool with it. 
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BooBear Active Indicator LED Icon 16
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:44pm  
Of course it is, you are dancing. That's it. I just don't understand jealousy. 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:46pm  
That depends. I would talk with spouse or S.O., before going clubbing, even if it is girls night out, just to make sure.
 
Close slow dance...no, unless it is a friend.
 
Casual dancing at a distanbce minus sexy grinding moves and dirty dancing, I don't see an issue. Any closer than line dancing or a fast jitterbug, or two-steppin', then be safe and just say no.
 
Just to be safe, stick with dancing with your girlfriends in a group of you haven't talked about it.
 
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Francita Active Indicator LED Icon 17
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:47pm  
I think so.  I think within respectful limits.  4951
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Brat Active Indicator LED Icon 15
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:51pm  
Of course it is, you are dancing. That's it. I just don't understand jealousy.
 
@BooBear: Do you want some girl grinding on your husband? 
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BooBear Active Indicator LED Icon 16
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:55pm  

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>> Of course it is, you are dancing. That's it. I just don't understand jealousy.
 
@BooBear: Do you want some girl grinding on your husband? 
 
@Brat:
 
Not that my husband would be out on the floor dancing anyway but why not? It's not as if they are going to throw down right there on the dance floor.
 
He has a nice ***. If I we're another girl I would try to grind on it myself. 4951
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Heathur Active Indicator LED Icon 12 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 8:59pm  
We're going out with a group of friends this weekend to celebrate my birthday early. The place we're going has dancing, karaoke, & a mechanical bull. Evvvvery time we go out, DH will take a break from dancing, I'll keep dancing with the girls, & some random dude will come dance with me. Never fails. He'll put his jealous pants on & walk up with his stern face on then pull me away to dance with him. I'd rather dance with him than anyone, but I just can't imagine saying "Sorry, I can't dance with you. I'm married." when someone else comes up & starts dancing. That's just silly. I was just wondering what other people's thoughts were. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 9:04pm  
Do you think it's okay to simply dance with someone other than your spouse/ significant other at a bar? If no, why not?
 
@Heathur:
If they are there and ok with it. But no to the dirty dancing unless is same sex (I do with girlfriends)... 4951
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Francita Active Indicator LED Icon 17
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 9:04pm  
yea, @Heathur, he should just let you dance.  Maybe its because he thinks he has to show face and rescue his lovely bride?  I think more than anything, it's the intent.  If its innocent, it should be completely okay.  4951
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Love2Run Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 9:07pm  
I think it totally depends on YOUR agenda. If you're just there to dance and have fun, without any other intentions, then I think there's no harm. You can control anything inappropriate and you can tell your DH that you're in control.
 
I used to go to Stetson's all the time, just to dance.I had no other ulterior motives...did NOT want to be picked up or rubbed against (eeeuuuuuwww!), I just loved to dance and enjoyed different techniques. Some guys just think with their d*cks, however, and you have to nip it in the bud right away. 4951
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cgm10sne1 Active Indicator LED Icon 10
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 9:09pm  
@love2run me too. Exactly! Great post! 4951
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Love2Run Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 9:10pm  
@love2run me too. Exactly! Great post!
 
@cgm10sne1: that's why I like you! We think alike....
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tonyaust Active Indicator LED Icon 1
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 9:24pm  
I was taught (50 years ago!!) that the first and last dance of he evening had to be with your partner. Otherwise it was okay but it was usual for the guy to ask the girls partner if it was okay. Different times!! 4951
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SerenityNow Active Indicator LED Icon
~ 9 years ago   Jan 12, '15 10:24pm  
It completely depends on the atmosphere and the song. 4951
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CBP210 Active Indicator LED Icon 10
~ 9 years ago   Jan 13, '15 12:13am  
I would say no unless it is a family member or friend and even with friends it is still a touchy area. In the past at family functions it is not unusual for friends to dance but with supervisions but when slow dances come it is best to be ready to grab your spouse right away. I had this issue a long time ago when I was single at a friends party and I was dancing with a good friend and my girlfriend at the time at first got jealous but later was allright after meeting her. 4951
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