oh and the links on your rules page are rather revealing......
Spanking- My CDD Christian Domestic Discipline lifestyle
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First let me just say this MY marriage… MY life and I’m
very happily married. This may not be for you… but it works for me. I
DO have a CDD marriage. with spanking, and rules.
I do submit to my husband as God said I was to do. Now that is in
the Bible. I’m addressing this to Christians who try to do what God says
to do. I am not going to debate with any feminists at this time, or
non-Christians, or Christians who believe that submission applied “back
then” but doesn’t now.
I am 32. My husband Paul is 45. He spanks me when I do something I
shouldn’t. He uses a strap, a paddle, a hairbrush and we are working up
to the belt. He makes me remove my clothes and either lay across the
bed, or he puts me over his lap. I am spanked until I am crying . I know
I deserve the spankings he gives me. I get spanked by my husband when I
do something which we deemed unacceptable. I am spanked OTK (Over The Knee),
with a paddle or however he determines. I deserve the spankings, they
need to be severe in order to break me of naughtiness or bad habits. I’m
glad that at least some of my punishments are administered across my
husband’s lap. That’s precisely where a I deserve to be put when my
bottom requires disciplinary attention. It is quite painful and
humiliating but sure is better than getting into arguments along with
hours of silence.
There are so many people in the world who do not believe it is the
responsibility of the husband to spank his wife. A woman may be
different from a man, but neither one is above the other. Most people
think that in DD the husband is the end all, be all in the marriage but
the wife has a equal say in the marriage. Why shouldn’t a wife be
punished when she does something her husband and she perceives as
“naughty”? She is an adult, and she has a right to do whatever she wants
so long as it is not illegal. If she wants to submit to her husband and
give him the authority to spank/punish her than it is her choice. She
is not crazy, abused or weird. She is doing what she needs or wants in
her life. It is not easy to make that decision to give that authority to
her husband. No one wants to be punished but there are times that I
need, crave or deserve it.
I very much don’t want to be spanked/punished. But
if I speed, then the correct punishment is to have to pay the fine. If I
am bratty or do something that both my husband and I deems wrong then I
pay the fine. Maybe the fine is a spanking, or corner time but again
there are rules (laws) in our house and I have to pay the fine. It seems
to me that I would try not to do something that will get me punished
but sometimes I just can’t help myself
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