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by: KTownTexican Active Indicator LED Icon 11 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 8:44am  
and they paid somebody to do this research....Women's desire for sex is complicated Hormones, emotion, security, health all play a role(CNN) - What makes a woman want to have sex isn't totally hormonal, as it can be with men.Instead, women need a lot more to be turned on, according to a study published in the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology and Metabolism."Women's interest in sex is extremely complicated," said Dr. John Randolph, a study author. Randolph is a professor of obstetrics and gynecology with the University of Michigan Health System. While some drugs are in the pipeline, there is no drug treatment available in the United States for boosting the female sex drive, although up to one-third of adult women may experience "hypoactive sexual desire disorder," the medical term for a low interest in sex, according to a 2002 study. Some doctors have explored the idea of giving low doses of testosterone to help women with a low libido. Giving a form of testosterone to men can help, because that's what they need to maintain an erection. Women's bodies produce testosterone, but not nearly at the same level as men, and that testosterone production drops significantly if a woman has had her ovaries removed. It also drops after menopause. Randolph said scientists have theorized that testosterone played a role in women's sexual function "but people haven't been very successful in proving that for lots of reasons." His study shows that testosterone does play a role in women's interest in sex, but it may only play a modest role. What seemed to play a bigger role in a woman's drive for sex is her emotional well-being.Randolph and his co-authors got at that conclusion by examining data from 3,302 women who were part of a decade-long effort called Study of Women's Health Around the Nation.The women had their blood drawn and doctors checked the presence of testosterone and other reproductive hormones. For the purpose of this particular study, the focus was on women going through menopause.Looking through the data, researchers saw that the women with higher testosterone levels in their blood felt sexual desire slightly more than women with lower levels. "But the difference was underwhelming," Randolph said. Meaning, he believes, that giving a woman with a small appetite for intimacy testosterone wouldn't suddenly give her a healthy sex drive. What the data did show was that women who reported that they had fewer sad moods and reported being more emotionally satisfied in their relationship had more sexual desire than those who did not. "Mood and an overall sense of health and well-being is key for women," Randolph said.So what that suggests is that women who are dissatisfied with their low desire for intimacy may want to talk to their doctors about how they can improve these psychological factors instead."It's not fair, I know. A lot of people would probably rather just be able to take a pill," Randolph said. "But when it comes to sex, women are a lot more complicated." 4951
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jax Active Indicator LED Icon 16
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 8:48am  
What a waste of money. ANY person in the world could have told you all that for FREE.
 
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 8:49am  
Bottom line:  if you aren't good to your lady and she feels like you don't love or desire her, chances are you're not getting any, or if you do, it will be very infrequently. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 8:55am  
Bottom line:  if you aren't good to your lady and she feels like you don't love or desire her, chances are you're not getting any, or if you do, it will be very infrequently.
 
@donnatella:
 
Here's another thought. If the man feels like the lady is banging another, the man may find someone to hit, thus not being interested in his current lady.
 
Bottom line: Don't get married and you don't have to worry about it.
 
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 8:56am  
Some people just dont crave sex. Some people just dont crave sex with the person they may be with no matter how good that person is to them but want it with someone else. People have a natural desire level and that is what you have to work with. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 8:58am  
Some people just dont crave sex. Some people just dont crave sex with the person they may be with no matter how good that person is to them but want it with someone else. People have a natural desire level and that is what you have to work with.
 
@BooBear:
 
What are trying to say BooBear? Is that a hint? I'll be right over Emoticon
 
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 9:05am  

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>> Bottom line:  if you aren't good to your lady and she feels like you don't love or desire her, chances are you're not getting any, or if you do, it will be very infrequently.
 
@donnatella:
 
Here's another thought. If the man feels like the lady is banging another, the man may find someone to hit, thus not being interested in his current lady.
 
Bottom line: Don't get married and you don't have to worry about it.
 
 
@jax: But what if she's NOT.  For a lot of men, sex is just a physical need...a bodily function. For women, it's more...desire, fantasy, deeper emotional connection, etc. If she doesn't feel loved, admired and instead, is treated like a roommate, she's not going to feel sexy toward her guy.
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 9:06am  

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>> Bottom line:  if you aren't good to your lady and she feels like you don't love or desire her, chances are you're not getting any, or if you do, it will be very infrequently.
 
@donnatella:
 
Here's another thought. If the man feels like the lady is banging another, the man may find someone to hit, thus not being interested in his current lady.
 
Bottom line: Don't get married and you don't have to worry about it.
 
 
@jax: But what if she's NOT.  For men, sex is just a physical need...a bodily function. For women, it's more...desire, fantasy, deeper emotional connection, etc. If she doesn't feel loved, admired and instead, is treated like a roommate, she's not going to feel sexy toward her guy.
 
@donnatella:
 
I dont think its just empty and physical for men. That is a gross misconception.
 
Men and women both can just have sex and it can be good but if you can add the other elements in for both then it becomes life altering. 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 9:09am  
 
@donnatella:
 
I dont think its just empty and physical for men. That is a gross misconception.
 
@BooBear:  Fair enough.  I edited it to read "a lot of men" which is true, BTW, or at least how they act.
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Love2Run Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 9:10am  
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. Totally different triggers and needs, emotionally and physically. Somehow we meet in the middle, offering respect and consideration. And sometimes, SOMETIMES, it can be incredible. 4951
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KTownTexican Active Indicator LED Icon 11 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 9:19am  
Bottom line:  if you aren't good to your lady and she feels like you don't love or desire her, chances are you're not getting any, or if you do, it will be very infrequently.
 
@donnatella:
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 9:22am  

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>> Bottom line:  if you aren't good to your lady and she feels like you don't love or desire her, chances are you're not getting any, or if you do, it will be very infrequently.
 
@donnatella: you know my story better than to make a comment like that
 
@KTownTexican:  Wasn't talking about you at all, my friend.
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RegularGuy Active Indicator LED Icon 2
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 10:52am  
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Mahm Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 11:00am  
Like I said in the making out thread, mental fore play is very important. That can mean different things to different women. And many men want this too. 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 11:10am  
Most men and some women are like light switches and are ready to go in an instant.  Meanwhile, most women are like crockpots...they take some warming up at first but will give you a fabulous feast when fully heated. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 23, '14 11:13am  
Yep.
 
Nothing kills the libido like a crappy man or relationship, continuos stress and dysfunction or/and certain drugs. Or all of the above.
 
Lots of Women require attachment as foreplay. We want to feel loved first. Imagine that. Men however often see sex as an act of discourse of genitals only. 4951
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