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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator  OP 
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 12:32am  

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@donnatella: You have watched too much Reefer Madness and Six Feet Under
 
@Murf: Well, I've never had any experience with it at all, so all I know is what I see and hear from others, including media.
 
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Wooderson Active Indicator LED Icon 17
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 3:33am  
 
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@donnatella: Or forearms
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator  OP 
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 6:58am  
@donnatella: Or forearms
 
@Wooderson: That doesn't happen to women. We have toys that take care of things. No carpal tunnel, no unwanted muscle mass in the arms. B.O.B. prevents all of those unsavory side effects.
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~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 7:51am  
Hard to undo 20+ years of joint everything quickly and easily. Assets to divide, property to sell, kids, etc. it's not just an "okay I'm done" venture, even in a no-fault start like Texas.
 
@donnatella: I really was not writing about you earlier.  I was in an 8 year marriage and it was very hard to end(made it way easier when he cheated).  Luckily, I got to choose b/t 2 states to divorce him in.  If 8 years was hard, I can only imagine how tough 20years would be.
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Love2Run Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 7:56am  
Re: undoing. I could write a friggin' book here. Only advice I have is go more with your gut and less with advice from others. Regardless of how close to you they are, they really don't know your pain. But talking about it does help put your feelings in order.
 
Re: weed eh...I can take it or leave it. And, for some reason, I can't mix it with alcohol 'cause it makes me sick every time. So, I'd rather have my wine. But it's really no big deal and I believe it should be legalized. 4951
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Mahm Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 8:27am  

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>> Hard to undo 20+ years of joint everything quickly and easily. Assets to divide, property to sell, kids, etc. it's not just an "okay I'm done" venture, even in a no-fault start like Texas.
 
@donnatella: I really was not writing about you earlier.  I was in an 8 year marriage and it was very hard to end(made it way easier when he cheated).  Luckily, I got to choose b/t 2 states to divorce him in.  If 8 years was hard, I can only imagine how tough 20years would be.
 
@Okiedokie:
I too ended an 8 year marriage that I should have ended much sooner. There were no assets, but custody of the children was tough. After all that fighting, he has not made the effort to see them in nearly 3 years. With all his gambling and poker playing, I should have known he was bluffing. Fear of fighting over the children is what kept me from leaving sooner. We had moved from rental to rental so we had no home that I was worried about leaving. So I'm with you. I can't imagine the difficulty of ending a 20 year marriage when you have built a life around one another.
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Love2Run Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 8:48am  
I agree @Mahm & @Okiedokie. It IS hard but being in a dead-end, unhappy relationship is unhealthy. And not a good environment to raise children. One happy parent is a whole helluva lot better than two miserable ones - or one miserable one and one indifferent. 4951
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Love2Run Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 9:40am  
But @Donnatella, whatever you decide, we've got your back. I know the 'alone' feeling in your unhappiness. Good luck to you and let me know how you're doing. 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator  OP 
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 10:00am  
I just needed to vent. I've often wondered how 20, 30, 40+ year marriages could end after all of those years. Wow, what am invesent of time, effort, youth spent, etc. I get it.
 
Is it Fear? Staying for the kids, now empty nesters? Bored? I get it.
 
I've had my attorney on speed dial for more years than I care to admit, and my finger on the button more times than I can count or remember. That's probably why I've grown a bit more cold and indifferent as each year passes, and my need to beat the living **** out of men in general, both physically and by verbal anhilalation and mental torture, grows stronger. Sorry guys.
 
Anyway, as much as I love hosting parties, pity-parties are just not my style. I got myself here, I'm a grown girl and I know how to get myself out. I just saw the pic in my original post, was definitely feeling it today, and it just fit my mood.
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Love2Run Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 10:32am  
Sounds like lots of pent up anger and resentment! @Donnatella, besides sex, what gives you joy?Edited to add:  and there's no need to answer that question publicly.  I just remembered feeling like you do and finding other things in life to give me pleasure and joy. 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator  OP 
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 12:46pm  
Sounds like lots of pent up anger and resentment! @Donnatella, besides sex, what gives you joy?Edited to add: �and there's no need to answer that question publicly. �I just remembered feeling like you do and finding other things in life to give me pleasure and joy.
 
@Love2Run: No, that's a fair question. I love reading (smut preferably), hanging out with friends, shopping (my retail therapy), cranking up the tunes and surfing the net, pouring a drink of some kind and chilling on the patio, cruising around aimlessly with the sunroof open on a beautiful day just to see what's out there, laughing hysterically at chick flicks with the girls, then men-bashing with the girls after the chick flick is over...LOL. I also, believe it or not, really like my job. It's cool knowing I walk into a massive corporation and spend the day doing my small part to make it a better stronger company on the legal side.
 
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~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 7:04pm  
 
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@donnatella:
 
I completely agree. I am happiest when I just merely date. I am not good at being in a committed relationship. I am too independent and I can't stomach the ******** that eventually comes in a LTR. I do fine on my own, thank you very much. I guess my picker is broken. I do greatly admire couples that seem to have gotten it right. Its a tough thing to accomplish. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 8:07pm  

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@donnatella: You have watched too much Reefer Madness and Six Feet Under
 
@Murf: Well, I've never had any experience with it at all, so all I know is what I see and hear from others, including media.
 
 
@donnatella: actually pretty smart ....there is weed out there laced with other substances including pcp and other braindamaging delights...but hey, we want to read news stories about you chasing cars and chewing the tires. pcp will do that
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator  OP 
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 9:23pm  

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@donnatella: You have watched too much Reefer Madness and Six Feet Under
 
@Murf: Well, I've never had any experience with it at all, so all I know is what I see and hear from others, including media.
 

@donnatella: actually pretty smart ....there is weed out there laced with other substances including pcp and other braindamaging delights...but hey, we want to read news stories about you chasing cars and chewing the tires. pcp will do that
 
@ProblemAgain: I don't chase cars. Only one musician. I have standards you know...geez.
 
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Mahm Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 9 years ago   Sep 14, '14 9:26pm  
@Francita: Broken picker! Been there! 4951
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