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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 5:33pm  

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>> I flirt all the time,, she just looks at me like Im an idiot
 
@KTownTexican: Take her some flowers  Emoticon
 
@sapphire:  I used to buy flowers for my wife for no reason.  I got irritated with the florist because she would always smirk and say "Sure, no reason", so I found a different florist.  Now, my allergies are so bad, we can't have any real flowers in the house.
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 5:35pm  
@ktownTexican  Go get the book  called Love Languages  Maybe you just don't know your wifes language. This is a great book, quick read and helpful when you understand what motivates your wife.I know this is a lot of info, but its a summary of the book. Many times, people inflict their love language on their partner and that doesn't work. Mine is act of service. When my husband helps me do something that I might need a little hand with...or something that needs fixing and I'm clearly not savvy enough to fix...he does it for us....and I am very thankful and it shows me that I am important and loved! read on:Emotional Love Languages:Words of AffirmationThis is when you say how nice your spouse looks, or how great the dinner tasted. These words will also build your mate's self image and confidence.Quality TimeSome spouses believe that being together, doing things together and focusing in on one another is the best way to show love. If this is your partner's love language, turn off the TV now and then and give one another some undivided attention.GiftsIt is universal in human cultures to give gifts. They don't have to be expensive to send a powerful message of love. Spouses who forget a birthday or anniversary or who never give gifts to someone who truly enjoys gift giving will find themselves with a spouse who feels neglected and unloved.AdsWhy Men Fall In Lovehavetherelationshipyouwant.com9 Powerful Words You Can Say That Remind Him Why He Needs You.Why Men Pull Awaycatchhimandkeephim.com10 Ugly Mistakes Women Make That Ruins Any Chances Of A RelationshipIs He Cheating On You?spokeo.com/Cheating-Spouse-SearchEnter His Email Address. Find Pics & Profiles From 70+ Social NetworksCounselor MarriageSuccessful RelationshipsMarriage RelationshipMarriage LicenseDating LoveActs of ServiceDiscovering how you can best do something for your spouse will require time and creativity. These acts of service like vacuuming, hanging a bird feeder, planting a garden, etc., need to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love.Physical TouchSometimes just stroking your spouse's back, holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need. Determining Your Own Love LanguageSince you may be speaking what you need, you can discover your own love language by asking yourself these questions:How do I express love to others?What do I complain about the most?What do I request most often?Speaking in your spouse's love language probably won't be natural for you. Dr. Chapman says, "We're not talking comfort. We're talking love. Love is something we do for someone else. So often couples love one another but they aren't connecting. They are sincere, but sincerity isn't enough."AdsFix Erectile Dysfunctionwww.mensclinicsofamerica.comHouston Clinic with Exciting New ED Treatment. Works in 1 Visit.Love Spellswww.voodoospiritualist.comSpells to restore love & passion. Find love, stop cheating & divorce.Emotional ExperiencesThe number one emotional experience reported by folks is feeling the presence of God in their lives. The emotional high of being in love (which generally lasts around 2 years) is the second highest emotional experience that people reportedly have.That is why it can be so difficult to try and talk some sense into someone who is in the midst of falling in love. Chapman stated that obsessive love can render people mentally incompetent. "There's not much difference between being in love and being insane."Fading Tingle and Empty Love TanksAfter the first or second year of marriage, when the initial "tingle" is starting to fade, many couples find that their "love tanks" are empty. They may have been expressing love for their spouse, but in reality they may have been speaking a different love language. The best way to fill your spouse's love tank is to express love in their love language. Each of us has a primary love language. Usually, couples don't have the same love language.Tank CheckDr. Chapman recommends that you have a "Tank Check" 3 nights a week for 3 weeks. Ask one another "How is your love tank tonight?" If, on a scale from zero to ten, it is less than 10, then ask "What can I do to help fill it?" Then do it to the best of your ability.The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 5:41pm  
@cgm10sne1:  UGGGHHH!!!!!!!"Love tank" makes me think of Vicky on "Housewives of Orange County".  I used to watch it to see how badly people (particularly Vicky) could act.  I stopped watching several seasons ago.  I think my wife still likes to catch an episode once in a while. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 5:47pm  
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 5:59pm  

@Retired_Engineer: I would change florist as well and talk to the owner about it.   I don't tolerate that kind of behavior. 
 
@sapphire:  She WAS the owner.  I won't tolerate it either.  When she said it the first time, I told her that I wasn't kidding.  After she did it again, I changed florists.  She may have been kidding, but the smirk indicated to me that she wasn't.
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 6:03pm  
I'm a sensitive, touchy feely, playful, doting, confident, sexual tease twit and I need another twit just like me. My love language is all of them. But especially touch. I like back rubs, but I cook! 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 6:04pm  
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 6:04pm  
I'm a sensitive, touchy feely, playful, doting, confident, sexual tease twit and I need another twit just like me. My love language is all of them. But especially touch. I like back rubs, but I cook!
 
@TheTruthHurts:  Are you available on weekends?  Emoticon
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 6:08pm  

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@Retired_Engineer: I would change florist as well and talk to the owner about it.   I don't tolerate that kind of behavior. 
 
@sapphire:  She WAS the owner.  I won't tolerate it either.  When she said it the first time, I told her that I wasn't kidding.  After she did it again, I changed florists.  She may have been kidding, but the smirk indicated to me that she wasn't.
 
@Retired_Engineer: Was that in Kingwood?
 
@sapphire:  Yes, it was a very small shop between the Wendy's and Post Office on West Lake Houston.  She apparently wasn't very good with customer relations since she had to close down many years ago.
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 6:10pm  

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@KTownTexican: Take her some flowers  Emoticon
 
@sapphire:  I used to buy flowers for my wife for no reason.  I got irritated with the florist because she would always smirk and say "Sure, no reason", so I found a different florist.  Now, my allergies are so bad, we can't have any real flowers in the house.
 
@Retired_Engineer: problem solved! and you even get a snack out of it...
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 6:36pm  
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 30, '14 9:18pm  

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@KTownTexican: Take her some flowers  Emoticon
 
@sapphire: ha,, that never works, I have done a lot.... still nothing,, so I QUIT
 
@KTownTexican:
 
I know this is probably too personal, and you don't have to answer, but is there some resentment there? I mean on her part? Have you tried everything to overcome something that went wrong? Or has it always been this way?
 
@Mahm: She doesn't like flowers
 
@KTownTexican:
I wouldn't get upset about flowers, but there are many things I would prefer over flowers. Chocolate, a pedicure, a break from the baby, a new outfit. Every woman has her thing.
 
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 31, '14 12:15am  
Hey ive been w my husband over 20 yrs. we have 2 daughters 15 and 10. We just got "legally" married this year. It was not ever a question of why. We have been happy as hell all these yrs. a piece of paper isnt end all be all. We r living proof. Not all couples are us either. Just sayin its not always about the number of yrs its what u made of those yrs. we did things backward omg i know right lol! But bc of that we got to have an amazing beautiful ceremony in punta cana w our babies as bridesmaids n they will never forget that beautiful moment! I could harp on n on but if its real legalities mean nothing
How do you finally get him to pop the question LOL been waiting almost 5 years... He says he wants to one day be married but he wants to be financially ready first... when the hell will that be! LOL
 
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 31, '14 8:05am  

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@TheTruthHurts:  Are you available on weekends?  Emoticon
 
@Retired_Engineer: Dang, you beat me to it!
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~ 9 years ago   Oct 31, '14 8:52am  
I get flirted everyday at my work by so many strangers. 4951
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