if everyone liked the same things & wanted the same things this would be a very dull place to be....variety is the spice of life (LOL) at least that's what I have always been told (LOL) Iam sure there are a few "men" on here that can tell us if that is true or not.....
Curious how old you are? Teen's? 20's? 30's? 40's? etc.? We've all got our hangup's & standards, but not liking someone just because of what they drink does seem silly IMO. We've all got our "things," it just seems a little sex & the city-ish.
I for one don't care what he drinks just so he can hold his liquor and enjoys happy hour at least three times a week if necessary!!! I only like the tattoos if they are tasteful and not noticeable in public eye and only consist of one on the chest or upper forearm. He must have good manners and be respectful of others especially elders. And he must be able to let the toilet seat back down at all times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Totally agree with GoldenGirl. You raise it, you lower it. Thankfully DH was raised with 2 sisters so he's always put the seat down, so I've never had an issue.
True story though- DD used my parents bathroom this past weekend. She's used to daddy always putting the seat down so she doesn't ever check. Well my dad hadn't put the seat down so Zoe went to use the potty & when she went to sit, she FELL IN! lol. We're all playing dominos & I hear a blood curdling "MOMMY! HELP!!!!" Like something was direly wrong. I run into the bathroom & find her still in the potty unable to get out, crying, soaking wet. Poor baby. Thank god he'd flushed. I pulled her out, gave her a bath, & changed her clothes. THAT is why men need to put the seat down! Plus when I wake up in the middle of the night to pee at 3am, I'm not going to turn the light on to check & see if the seat is down, & if I fall IN because it's up- there will be hell to pay, lol!! So yeah, he who lifts it shall lower it as soon as he's done..
I usually walk out of the house to take a leak so the whole toilet lid thing being left up isnt an issue at my house. The walking outside to take a leak deal was an issue at first but she got used to it after time.