She's not being silly Diver. She knows what she wants and doesn't want to settle for something she's not interested in.
That's pretty much the definition of silly. Knowing you want something, or doing something that has no value or impacts you negatively.sil·ly   [sil-ee] Show IPA adjective, -li·er, -li·est, noun,plural -lies.adjective1. weak-minded or lacking good sense; stupid or foolish: a sillywriter.2. absurd; ridiculous; irrational: a silly idea.Got a great guy, but won't date him because he was born in Mane? That's silly! Refuse to date him because his middle name is Joe! That's also really silly.Refuse to date a great catch because she is passionate about art and has a tattoo of something she holds dear on her ankle? You guessed it: really silly! 4951