And, where was this guy in the formative years of bio-mom's live, when teaching character, values, morals and responsibility are vital to raising productive members of society?  He might be an absentee parent himself and the root of the problem. Sounds like she has deep seeded issues, and is not just a teen with a good background and good family that started off on the right track and just got in with the wrong crowd.Â
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Sounds like J is much better off and will have great oppportunities to learn, grow and expernience true unconditional love.Â
@donnatella: I agree it sound like the baby is in a much better situation and will be given the chance to thrive with his current family.  BUT I hate that everyone is quick to jump on the grandfather for the daughters actiions...  He could be partially at fault or he could not sometimes kids take a BAD path no matter what a parent does. I am sure he is totally embarrased by his daughters behavior... He could have just walked away like his daughter or selfishly fought for the baby, but he is doing what is best for the baby now by checking in to make sure he is in a loving home....  I would not be so quick to judge the grandfather the mother is another story !!! Sounds like a sorry excuse for a human being !!!I have a brother who is special needs (mentally handicapped) and the other day a woman came up to him and I and said..... "My neighbor has one like that" referring to my brother...   I swear I wanted to punch her in the throat !!!!!
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