I don't even know how to help him right now. He barely will have a conversation with me, and is just so depressed. I'm trying to hard, but it's taking such a toll on me and my health> sometimes, I just don't want to deal with it anymore and just walk out. I want him to get better but he is not doing a lot to help himself right now which isn't helping. I appreciate everyone's advice. I miss my husband and how it used to be. I feel very alone.
@mattem: Sometimes just taking care of YOURSELF is the only thing you can do. Stay busy & focus on your own health and happiness. And tell him you're there for him if he needs you. I've been seriously depressed myself and, honestly, no one could help me but myself. Until I asked for help - and then I had lots of support. I'm sorry you're suffering.
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