@WJo - I'm so sorry. Sad times. My SIL helped me to understand when her mom was dying that even though it's heartbreaking to see a loved one suffer, it's part of their journey. And it's not our place to effect any change. If it's their time it's bigger than us. We will all be there one day. I'm watching my mom suffer with the latter stages of Alzheimer's - a cruel way to grow old and there's nothing I can do but love her and hold her hand. You're doing all you should be doing by loving her and helping her along her way. Thanks for sharing with your KW.com family and I hope you're better today.
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