So, what about all of the businesses that your church uses; printers, contractors, caterers, florists, lawn maintenance, etc. My guess is that those companies don't ban gays from being employed there. Should your church only do business with gay prohibitive businesses? That would be hard to do. Chances are, a church supported scout troop won't have gay kids breaking down the door to get in.
In fact, i bet that if it wasn't in the news, no one would notice the difference. 4951