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that kinda girl....ugh

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by: 4psychos Active Indicator LED Icon 6 OP 
~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 8:09am  
So when I was younger I had so many friends that would change who they were when they started dating someone. It always boggled my mind. Me - nope. The way I see it is if someone asks me out it was because they liked me so what was the point of changing all that, seriously its gotta get old at some point then you go back to you, and tell him "you've changed " that's crazy!
when me hubby decided to finally get married there really wasn't a transgression period. We were friends : I ate food, I burped,farted, and pooped, I cussed, my voice was not automatically 3 octaves higher, I stayed intelligent instead of turning into some dingy bimbo, I was aggressive, loved to fight, and have a lot of sex (only with my DH)
I actually had a friend tell me one time (I'm assuming because of the list I just described had a huge factor in me not having very many female friends) that he was disappointed when this girl threw her boobs on the floor! Fake will never work out, I wish I could somehow make young girls see just be you and if it works awesome if not it just wasn't meant to be. I have no doubt that when God created my husband He must have had a very humorous day! Might have went a little something like this... "ok so now the man is done, time for his soul mate, lets just take everything opposite of him to make her, then I will put this part of his heart in her and hers in him now they can't live without each other " 4951
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 8:13am  
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TheTruthHurts Active Indicator LED Icon 12
~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 8:16am  
I had so many friends that would change who they were when they started dating someone
 
@4psychos: Some of that is normal just being on your best behavior, if you need to, lol, but men do that too...be someone else they know you will like, and then the real person emerges and well, it ain't the same.Honesty is best. That way everyone isn't being fooled or tricked. Because what is the point?? Phasads will all fade and reality comes a'knockin'.  Emoticon
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 8:17am  
Maybe they changed to get friends and when they finally met their man they reverted back to who they truly were?  4951
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 8:20am  
I had a lot of dates but it was because I put out.Emoticon tha. Who I was. Muchael loves me for that. 4951
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 8:20am  
Maybe they changed to get friends and when they finally met their man they reverted back to who they truly were? 
 
@TexINS: That's possible too. Faking it takes way more energy and effort than it's worth.I figure the real me will either cut it or it won't. I hate fake **** on just about every realm there is. People are no different. lol
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 9:31am  
There is not point in not being the real you. Who wants to put on a show for 50 years while married? Like you guys have said, if you don't like me for the real me then move on Emoticon
 
On another note, I think my fiance and I are meant for each other Emoticon 4951
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 9:39am  
I believe my marriage has been successful because we love each other plus we have the same beliefs: Religious, financial, children (how to be raised), political.   4951
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 9:47am  
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 9:52am  
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 10:00am  

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>> Maybe they changed to get friends and when they finally met their man they reverted back to who they truly were? 
 
@TexINS: That's possible too. Faking it takes way more energy and effort than it's worth.I figure the real me will either cut it or it won't. I hate fake **** on just about every realm there is. People are no different. lol
 
@TheTruthHurts: I have a feeling my wife fakes it at least 89.9% of the time
 
 
@mm4731: please...its MUCH higher than that.
 
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 10:02am  
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 7:08pm  

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@TexINS: That's possible too. Faking it takes way more energy and effort than it's worth.I figure the real me will either cut it or it won't. I hate fake **** on just about every realm there is. People are no different. lol
 
@TheTruthHurts: I have a feeling my wife fakes it at least 89.9% of the time
 
 
@mm4731: I hope not. Emoticon  And contrary to the DonnieBrasco school of sexual secrets, she can scam you if she wants. We women know HOW.  Emoticon
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 21, '13 10:10pm  
I smell popcorn
 
@mm4731: someone looking for popcorn???
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~ 11 years ago   Mar 22, '13 7:29am  

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@TexINS: That's possible too. Faking it takes way more energy and effort than it's worth.I figure the real me will either cut it or it won't. I hate fake **** on just about every realm there is. People are no different. lol
 
@TheTruthHurts: I have a feeling my wife fakes it at least 89.9% of the time
 

@mm4731: I hope not. Emoticon  And contrary to the DonnieBrasco school of sexual secrets, she can scam you if she wants. We women know HOW.  Emoticon
 
@TheTruthHurts: oh wait! Are you saying that if a woman is "faking" you will just know? That's amazing lmfao!!!
I figure I can't even keep a lie straight and remember wth I said so trying to live a lie I would be *****ed no doubt.
 
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~ 10 years ago   Apr 1, '13 1:54pm  
So when I was younger I had so many friends that would change who they were when they started dating someone. It always boggled my mind. Me - nope. The way I see it is if someone asks me out it was because they liked me so what was the point of changing all that, seriously its gotta get old at some point then you go back to you, and tell him "you've changed " that's crazy!
when me hubby decided to finally get married there really wasn't a transgression period. We were friends : I ate food, I burped,farted, and pooped, I cussed, my voice was not automatically 3 octaves higher, I stayed intelligent instead of turning into some dingy bimbo, I was aggressive, loved to fight, and have a lot of sex (only with my DH)
I actually had a friend tell me one time (I'm assuming because of the list I just described had a huge factor in me not having very many female friends) that he was disappointed when this girl threw her boobs on the floor! Fake will never work out, I wish I could somehow make young girls see just be you and if it works awesome if not it just wasn't meant to be. I have no doubt that when God created my husband He must have had a very humorous day! Might have went a little something like this... "ok so now the man is done, time for his soul mate, lets just take everything opposite of him to make her, then I will put this part of his heart in her and hers in him now they can't live without each other "
 
@4psychos: Dr. Laura Schlessinger wrote this in her book "TEN STUPID THINGS GIRLS DO TO MESS UP THIER LIVES' and was laughted off radio and TV.  I used to listen to her radio show on my way to work... and she used to say exactly what you said, but in differnt words.
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