write him a letter & tell him you are getting married & to leave you alone , then get the restraining order . If he comes around in May have him arrested. Remember the restraining order is just a piece of paper & it does not always keep the person away from you . You have to be on your toes & watching your back 24 / 7 . This guy sounds like a creep & it would pay to go to the police & tell them what has been happening & hafve them do a back ground check on him . Be one step ahead of him & be prepared at all times. If you do not own a gun , buy one & go to the range & target practice so you know how to handle your weapon . You need to take this nut serious & protect your self ....
@WJo:
Your right on all counts! I've been kicking myself since I opened my door!
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