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by: pickles Active Indicator LED Icon 3 OP 
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 3:46pm  
Does anyone have really crappy in laws?. I avec a step mother in law that is the worst. Very toxic. I try to stay away 4951
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Zoey Active Indicator LED Icon 2
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 3:58pm  
Want to play Who Can Top That?
 
My mother in law left my then 2 year old son crying at an escalator because he was afraid to walk on it. That happened at a very busy international airport. She had absolutely no concern for his welfare, or his life. I was lucky to have found him, walking outside of the airport all by himself. 4951
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~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:00pm  
Can't complain, my inlaws are great. 4951
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BooBear Active Indicator LED Icon 16
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:01pm  
I unfriended my MIL from facebook..she keeps sending requests..not gonna happen. She is just a self righteous ***** that I would watch drown.
 
Edit* maybe I wouldn't watch. I might would even leave a life preserver on the bank before walking away. 4951
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lola Active Indicator LED Icon 17
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:05pm  
OMG 4951
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deltadawn Active Indicator LED Icon 8
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:10pm  
Makes me feel so blessed, my in laws are wonderful. 4951
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Zoey Active Indicator LED Icon 2
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:12pm  
Does anyone have really crappy in laws?. I avec a step mother in law that is the worst. Very toxic. I try to stay away
 
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My MIL was married 9 times. She had lots of marital advice! 4951
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Retired_Engineer Active Indicator LED Icon 13
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:19pm  
My MIL was fine until she passed.  Very sweet.My FIL is OK.  I like him, but don't trust him.My Step MIL is pretty good, but she is too subservient to her husband.My BIL is a great guy.My SIL is a pathological liar and maybe schizophrenic.  She is no longer welcomed in our home.My other BIL was a nice guy but was also a liar and gifted con artist. 4951
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~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:24pm  
My MIL wanted to make a report to CPS on us. The reason???? She didn't feel as though she had enough contact with our kids ( at a point I wouldn't allow unsupervised visits)so she wanted to make a report and then gain custody of my kids.Thankfully my FIL and sister in law talked her out of it!!!Another time at Christmas she bought 40 presents for my DD but only 1 for my sonAnother Christmas- she was mad at us so she waited until we went to church on Christmas Eve and dumped the kids presents in the middle of the drive way - it had snowed- presents got wet.Another Christmas we hosted the Family Christmas as a way of peace offering. Everyone came- didn't eat, stayed 90 minutes and left. Hubs brother left behind our nephew's diaper bag. So on a hunch hubs drove over to his parents and lo and behold there everyone was eating and celebrating the "real" family Christmas.She tried to put my hubs ( as a child) into the remedial class because she thought he was learning disabled. She had him tested- he tested genius. The school refused to put him into remedial. He wasn't doing well because he was boredNow having said all that- I forgave her. It took many years. When we started having issues with our son- the hospital did a family history and suggested that my MIL was mentally ill and had gone undiagnosed her whole life. I have to agree with that 100%. But she made our lives a living hell 4951
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pickles Active Indicator LED Icon 3 OP 
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 4:51pm  
So I am not alone. I wish & pray I could get along w this thing. She nevers let's any one speak besides her. She only talks about her drunk adult children who don't have any kids or have never been married. She tells me I am full of hate & not a Christian in front of my children. The father never says a word about how she treats us. I envy people who have great relationships w their in laws. 4951
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~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 5:05pm  
My father in law and I have an incredibly honest relationship. He hates me, I hate him..we freely admit that, there is no false niceties. We don't even call each other by our names. I'm Daughter in law to him, I call him father in law..we see each other, one of us says hi, the other says "we still hate each other, right?" "Yep, still the same" we have an understanding and we tolerate each other well. It's actually fun. 4951
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~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 5:08pm  
Removed By Request 4951
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~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 5:11pm  
I think my MIL was sexually abused as a child and it caused her many problems.  I'm sad that bad things happened to her, but I wish she had gotten some help.  She was a terrible mother and a very negative, selfish person.  I have a hard time forgiving her for the things she exposed her own children to.  She is no longer living.  Surprisingly, after many, many struggles her children are all doing okay and straightened their lives out.  I really didn't care about gifts, but she always made excuses for not giving the kids gifts, we didn't care, she didn't need to make up crap.  She gave me gift cards a couple of times with nothing on them, lol.   She had zero interest in our children, she only visited for vacation.  She came when Dd was 5 weeks old, not to help or see her but to see the sights.  Just what a first time mom wants to do, tourism duty.  Never met FIL, not in hubby's life.  4951
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pickles Active Indicator LED Icon 3 OP 
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 5:15pm  
@pickles, does your dh let her say that crap?That is the first and biggest problem if so.  Until that is fixed, the inlaw isn't the issue.My dh let his parents as I let mine know day one, we will not tolerate that crap.  Not saying my mil didn't have some zingers to add once in a while.  But like my mom told me, you will be picking her nursing home so sit back and smile.  I did.  I never said a word against her.  My fil was diagnosed with dementia a couple years ago.  That is when things all changed.  She was use to her dh doing everything.  She never took care of finances, etc. Her dh did all that.  Well my dh goes to help her get through some legal matters with my fil, power of attorney's etc.  While there he had to call me to get me to get things done.  She was floored I handle all these things.  But my dh is out of the country more than in, sometime, and we have no family within 1200 miles, so I have always had to do things myself.She is 100% different.  She calls me weekly to talk to me.  She asks me to give her advice and help her do most things.  She is night and day what she was.  I think a lot had to do with my fil.  He was always an ***.  Dementia isn't something I would wish on any family, but he was still always an ***.You need to have your dh set her straight.  Then just no longer go to her house or be anywhere she is.  Your kids do not go where you do not go.  If anyone has an issue with that tell them to stop breathingEmoticon  Do not ever back down from this.  Cut them out of your life, and you will be surprised at how much better your life becomes.
 
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Oh trust my husband goes head to head w her. His father doesn't say a word just lets her treat us like crap. His own son has been treated very poorly since his mother passed when he was 13 & he married this thing. She won't let us speak. She talks over you & tells us we are wrong on every level. 4951
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pickles Active Indicator LED Icon 3 OP 
~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 5:15pm  
@pickles, does your dh let her say that crap?That is the first and biggest problem if so.  Until that is fixed, the inlaw isn't the issue.My dh let his parents as I let mine know day one, we will not tolerate that crap.  Not saying my mil didn't have some zingers to add once in a while.  But like my mom told me, you will be picking her nursing home so sit back and smile.  I did.  I never said a word against her.  My fil was diagnosed with dementia a couple years ago.  That is when things all changed.  She was use to her dh doing everything.  She never took care of finances, etc. Her dh did all that.  Well my dh goes to help her get through some legal matters with my fil, power of attorney's etc.  While there he had to call me to get me to get things done.  She was floored I handle all these things.  But my dh is out of the country more than in, sometime, and we have no family within 1200 miles, so I have always had to do things myself.She is 100% different.  She calls me weekly to talk to me.  She asks me to give her advice and help her do most things.  She is night and day what she was.  I think a lot had to do with my fil.  He was always an ***.  Dementia isn't something I would wish on any family, but he was still always an ***.You need to have your dh set her straight.  Then just no longer go to her house or be anywhere she is.  Your kids do not go where you do not go.  If anyone has an issue with that tell them to stop breathingEmoticon  Do not ever back down from this.  Cut them out of your life, and you will be surprised at how much better your life becomes.
 
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Oh trust my husband goes head to head w her. His father doesn't say a word just lets her treat us like crap. His own son has been treated very poorly since his mother passed when he was 13 & he married this thing. She won't let us speak. She talks over you & tells us we are wrong on every level. We do not go to their house anymore. No where private. This was seating at a Kingwood restaurant. She complained about the entire time bc we picked the place to eat We don't do holidays w them anymore bc she gives us crap from garage sales while her drunk who're kids get really nice stuff. Telling my kids they would get more if they would come around more 4951
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~ 7 years ago   Apr 18, '16 5:21pm  
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