@sweetieAt times of such heartbreak and sincere sorrow, my friend, there are simply no words to fully express my deepest sympathy....I am just so, so very sorry.... You have carried yourself with such Grace thru this entire most unfortunate process, and I pray that same Grace gives you some comfort and peace.....You have my upmost sympathy, and if there is anything that you need, that I can help with, that I can do, be it anything at all, and I mean anything, please do NOT hesitate to reach out.... I'll keep you and yours close in my thoughts and prayers.... I love you, sweetie.....  Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there... I do not sleep. I am the thousand winds that blow... I am the diamond glints on snow... I am the sunlight on ripened grain... I am the gentle autumn rain. When you waken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of gentle birds in circling flight... I am the soft star that shines at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry— I am not there... I did not die...    4951