All I did was ask him if he watched One Tree Hill (picked something mild) When he started stammering (he is a terrible liar and I am a human lie detector) so, I knew.I didn't want to embarrass him or call him out for it.  I really tried hard, but that was enough. I did my best to let him know that it was normal to be interested in stuff like that.  I told him it's ok, just try to limit the extreme stuff.  I said to ask me about any questions he had and that it was all ok.He was mortified and started crying.Now he has locked himself up in his room and I have a "scarred for life" child. Â
I never should have said anything and just locked it down. Â But I just HAD to know if it was a hacker or not (I know people who do stuff).What an f up of a day. 4951