Violence teaches violence.
Public embarrassment only causes confidence issues.
By restrictions on the things they desire works wonders.
A few yrs back I did something that could have turned real bad real fast. A wake up you might say.
At 50 yrs old I grounded myself from a yr of live concerts. My dh was welcome to go, he did nothing wrong.
He could not believe I was punishing myself at my age.
My thoughts are this.....
We learn right and wrong by the time we are two.
If I did not punish myself for my wrongs, then there is no reason to do it right.
I sat out that year. Kept my word to myself and learned a good lesson.
It changed my views and practice them still this day. Never to repeat that embarrassing almost life changing moment. 4951