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by: Ray Active Indicator LED Icon 17 OP 
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 1:27pm  
Well I for one like this.!!! Emoticonsent to me in an email. I was gonna forward it to Jan, but figgerd I may not get any ice tea again....(duck)18. Love your husband above allThe last point that I want to touch on today (although there are many more) is simply love. You should love your husband above everyone else (except the Lord ). Sometimes, our love will call for sacrifices, but you will quickly see that they are actually blessings.Tell your husband that you love him and show him that you love him. What are some ways that you can show him? This also will vary from husband to husband but here are a few ideas: a hot dinner, nightly back rub, starched shirts, planning family trips, wearing things he likes to see you, sending treats to the office or place of work. there many ways to be Romantic. (use the internet)A really good book that I read about showing love to your spouse was The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. This book may give you some ideas on how to best express love to your husband.There is so much more that I could write regarding our roles as a wife but then this would end up as a book and not just a blog entry. I truly hope that this message as been an encouragement to those of you who are working everyday to be the wife that God created you to be. I still struggle with many of these issues but it is also an area where I can see incredible changes that the Lord has made in my life and in my marriage. I only seek to take my weaknesses and give the glory to the Lord for all that He has done.In marriage, a husband and wife are not like a team of horses, each expected to be able to pull the same weight the same way,  but are more like a bow and arrow as in the poem “Hiawatha”, by Longfellow:As unto the bow the cord is,So unto man is woman;Tho’ she bends him, she obeys him;Tho’ she draws him, yet she follows;Usless one without the other. 4951
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Jpgurl Active Indicator LED Icon 18
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 2:40pm  
I will soooo keep my mouth shut. 😗
Y'all know I love him and he me but some of that just wouldn't work in our marriage. The other day I asked him if he wanted us to go to a "traditional" marriage- you know where I would do All the cooking, cleaning ( already do that), laundry( do that as well), iron and starch his shirts, dishes ( well mostly but the dishwasher needs emptying right now), Polish the silver ect . He was so excited until I reminded him that His chore list would get bigger BEFORE that nightly back rub - like yard work, painting and oh yeah- fix the toilet. Suddenly he wasn't so keen. 😜
But I do all that so that he doesn't have to mess with it on the weekend when he gets back in town. So we're pretty evenly matched- more like a team of horses less like a bow and arrow!
@Ray- I have the recipe for iced tea if you want it😉 4951
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fcabanski Active Indicator LED Icon 16
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 2:42pm  
There's a reason 50% of marriages fail. 4951
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Ray Active Indicator LED Icon 17 OP 
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 3:07pm  
they did not all post.  try again18. Love your husband above allThe last point that I want to touch on today (although there are many more) is simply love. You should love your husband above everyone else (except the Lord ). Sometimes, our love will call for sacrifices, but you will quickly see that they are actually blessings.Tell your husband that you love him and show him that you love him. What are some ways that you can show him? This also will vary from husband to husband but here are a few ideas: a hot dinner, nightly back rub, starched shirts, planning family trips, wearing things he likes to see you, sending treats to the office or place of work. there many ways to be Romantic. (use the internet)A really good book that I read about showing love to your spouse was The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. This book may give you some ideas on how to best express love to your husband.There is so much more that I could write regarding our roles as a wife but then this would end up as a book and not just a blog entry. I truly hope that this message as been an encouragement to those of you who are working everyday to be the wife that God created you to be. I still struggle with many of these issues but it is also an area where I can see incredible changes that the Lord has made in my life and in my marriage. I only seek to take my weaknesses and give the glory to the Lord for all that He has done.In marriage, a husband and wife are not like a team of horses, each expected to be able to pull the same weight the same way,  but are more like a bow and arrow as in the poem “Hiawatha”, by Longfellow:As unto the bow the cord is,So unto man is woman;Tho’ she bends him, she obeys him;Tho’ she draws him, yet she follows;Usless one without the other.HOMEABOUT MESURRENDEROWNERSHIP – DO YOU GET IT?THE MASONIC WIFECREATE A PERFECT MARRIAGEELIMINATE PRIDESELF SACRIFICE AND SELF ABNEGATIONHOW TO BE A SUBMISSIVE WIFEBEING A GOOD SUBMISSIVE WIFESEX AND SUBMISSIONI AM A SUBMISSIVE WIFE (POEM)AN ACT OF LOVESPANKING- MY CDD CHRISTIAN DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE LIFESTYLEWOMAN: GOD’S GREAT MASTERPIECE!MASONIC IMAGES18 RULES FOR MARRIED WOMENTAKEN IN HAND RELATIONSHIPWHY PUNISHMENT SPANKINGS WORKSHOW MY HUSBAND SET ME FREE.Powered by BLOG.COM 4951
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Ray Active Indicator LED Icon 17 OP 
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 3:09pm  
surrendered.blog.com /18-rules-for-marrie d-women/just go here ....the complete list 4951
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~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 3:40pm  
Interesting. My hubby dated an Eastern Star before me. Let's just say he got the heck out of Dodge as quick as possible. I'm glad it's working for her and continues to work- I'd say they are still fresh in the marriage business. Come back in 30 years when there's a ton of mileage on those tires. Some days you do whatever it takes to get the job done even if you have to wear sweats! And some days sweats look sexy to the awesome husband! 4951
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SerenityNow Active Indicator LED Icon
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 4:33pm  
Well, I do agree with many of her points, but I am pretty traditional. I especially like the Love Languages mentioned. It really helps so much. My husband is pretty much 100% physical touch as his love language, and mine is quality time. Knowing this, we know exactly what to focus on to make sure we both feel loved. 4951
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~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 5:00pm  
gee, following this list must mean the wife doesn't have to work an outside job so the family bills all get paid. 4951
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MarT Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 5:57pm  
Does this mean I need to change out of my workout clothes and shower 😊 4951
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ProblemAgain Active Indicator LED Icon 10
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 5:57pm  
oh and the links on your rules page are rather revealing......
 
Spanking- My CDD Christian Domestic Discipline lifestyle


 
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First let me just say this MY marriage… MY life and I’m
very happily married.  This may not be for you… but it works for me.  I
DO have a CDD marriage. with spanking, and  rules.
I do submit to my husband as God said I was to do. Now that is  in
the Bible. I’m addressing this to Christians who try to do what God says
to do. I am not going to debate with any feminists at this time, or
non-Christians, or Christians who believe that submission applied “back
then” but doesn’t now.
I am 32. My husband Paul is 45. He spanks me when I do something I
shouldn’t. He uses a strap, a paddle, a hairbrush and we are working up
to the belt. He makes me remove my clothes and either lay across the
bed, or he puts me over his lap. I am spanked until I am crying . I know
I deserve the spankings he gives me. I get spanked by my husband when I
do something which we deemed unacceptable. I am spanked OTK (Over The Knee),
with a paddle or however he determines. I deserve the spankings, they
need to be severe in order to break me of naughtiness or bad habits. I’m
glad that at least some of my punishments are administered across my
husband’s lap. That’s precisely where a I deserve to be put when my
bottom requires disciplinary attention. It is quite painful and
humiliating but sure is better than getting into arguments along with
hours of silence.
There are so many people in the world who do not believe it is the
responsibility of the husband to spank his wife. A woman may be
different from a man, but neither one is above the other. Most people
think that in DD the husband is the end all, be all in the marriage but
the wife has a equal say in the marriage. Why shouldn’t a wife be
punished when she does something her husband and she perceives as
“naughty”? She is an adult, and she has a right to do whatever she wants
so long as it is not illegal. If she wants to submit to her husband and
give him the authority to spank/punish her than it is her choice. She
is not crazy, abused or weird. She is doing what she needs or wants in
her life. It is not easy to make that decision to give that authority to
her husband. No one wants to be punished but there are times that I
need, crave or deserve it.
I very much don’t want to be spanked/punished. But
if I speed, then the correct punishment is to have to pay the fine. If I
am bratty or do something that both my husband and I deems wrong then I
pay the fine. Maybe the fine is a spanking, or corner time but again
there are rules (laws) in our house and I have to pay the fine. It seems
to me that I would try not to do something that will get me punished
but sometimes I just can’t help myself
4951
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Ray Active Indicator LED Icon 17 OP 
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 6:07pm  
Just for the record....Pretty much none of that applies around here... Emoticon 4951
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MarT Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 6:19pm  
Wowza, that's some weird sh@#! To each their own, but she sounds brainwashed. 4951
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~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 7:28pm  
I call Bs on this blog- dh calls bs too unless it's for.... Well you know for fun! Emoticon by definition I'd be traditional (SAHM/ housewife)- but my deal is teamwork- and let's just say this applies in our house- Momma ain't happy- ain't no one happy. BUT in saying that- Daddy brings the pay check home!! Just FYI as far as the reference to team of horses vs bow and arrow- well if anyone deals with teams- ie field work ect.  Two team horses are never perfectly matched- impossible- one is stronger / one is weaker/one is smarter/ one is dumber- the handler  works with both who aren't too far apart in strengths and weaknesses.Again if that works for them then GREAT.  My hubb's and I are a team no whipping or spanking into submission unless like I said for funEmoticon. Who's the master who's the slave?... 4951
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~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 7:34pm  
Three men were sitting together bragging about howthey had given their new wives duties.~The first man had married a woman from Alabama andbragged that he had told his wife she was going to doall the dishes and house cleaning. He said it took acouple days but on the third day he came home to aclean house and the dishes were done.~The second man had married a woman from Florida. Hebragged that he had given his wife orders that she wasto do all the cleaning, dishes and the cooking. On thefirst day he didn't see any results, but the next dayit was better. By the third day, his house was clean, thedishes were done and he had a huge dinner on thetable.~The third man had married a woman from TexasHe boasted that he told her that her duties were tokeep the house cleaned, dishes washed, lawn mowed,laundry washed and hot meals on the table for everymeal. He said the first day he didn't see anything,The second day he didn't see anything, but by thethird day most of the swelling had gone down and hecould see a little out of his left eye. Enough to fixhimself some soup he could slurp thru a straw, be able to load the dishwasher andtelephone a landscaper. 4951
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SerenityNow Active Indicator LED Icon
~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 8:38pm  
For normal people, laying naked across your husband's lap because you've been naughty doesn't result in discipline. It results in pregnancy. 4951
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~ 8 years ago   Apr 17, '15 8:47pm  
just my opinion but if you read the whole link about being a submissive wife and hubby spanking her, she also talks about how the sex is hotter yatta yatta....so what she is describing is submissive and dominant behavior and they dress it up with claims of christianity so they don't have to admit they just like spanking and *******I can offer you fifty reasons why you might want to let him take you across his lap and indulge his dreams.
The lovemaking afterward is often sensationalRomantic spanking opens lines of communicationsThere’s a community of spankos to provide support and adviceAdult spanking is the most common of all kinksIt can strengthen your relationshipJust picture those beautiful globes over his  lap…he is eager for this, really!Compared to childbirth, the pain of a spanking is trivialThis is not punishment, think instead about spanking as foreplaySpanking builds trust between partnersIt’s really OK to hit a woman, but only if she enjoys itThis isn’t weird or unusual, it’s just another kind of sexhe can be the strong, decisive man of your fantasiesWhat’s not to like?Do the initials B. J. hold any significance?Many couples include erotic spanking in their lovemakingHis dream can be your pleasureIt’s something fun you can do togetherYou could make it a gameSpankings can be relaxingThere are many other dedicated spankoRole play spankings are great funIf something doesn’t work, you don’t have to repeat itIt isn’t about the pain, it’s about a shared experienceThis opens an exciting new chapter in your relationshipSpankings promote greater physical and emotional intimacyYour willingness to try demonstrates your love for himIt’s wonderful to feel completely in love againWith a safeword, you can tell him before things go truly wrongYour his  your lover – It’s OK if his fingers wander southwardThe process of experimentation allows a couple to grow togetherIt’s with you she wants to share this secretSpankings don’t have to be serious – You can laugh and jokeMost women’s bottoms are well padded – real damage is unlikelyConsensual spanking is not abuseSpanking can be a huge turn-on for both of you !He won’t think that you’re mean if you’re doing as he askedYou could get her to dress up for her spankingWith a few simple rules, adult spankings are safe and funWe women are tougher than you thinkhe  can be your hero!He’ll  love how your skin grows warm.Hugs and kissesIt’s wonderful to spoon after a spankingMake him smile – tease him about future spankingsYou can start small and simpleHe’ll adore you all the more for listening to his needsHe has  always wanted to threaten to “tan your hide?”It’s fun to collect and test various spanking implementsThis list will add a new dimension to your relationship.http://surrendered.blog.com/spanking-my-cdd-christian-domestic-discipline-lifestyle/ 4951
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