aww, so sorry @myevilgrini can't imagine losing my mom. Â i lost my grandma in november (my mom's mom) and i know how hard it's been on my mom. Â some days she's ok and the next any little thing makes her cry. Â i hated not being able to say goodbye...i couldn't go to the funeral because it was in wisconsin and i was literally giving birth. Â she died the day before my son was born. 4951