Wow thank you Francita! I am in early 40's now and everything you wrote sounds pretty accurate! I completely agree it does feel like the neck pain is causing the headache. It is horrible and very scary, especially since I've never been a headache sufferer! thank you for taking the time to respond! I am glad you found the cause of yours.
@Bearfin: There are pressure points on the top of your shoulders that when squeezed and released, relieve even the worst migraines. Imagine your torso as a t-shirt you want to hang up - now picture a trouser hangar with clasps. Exactly where you would pinch those clasps onto a shirt is where you want to have someone squeeze with pretty good force. Have them hold it until the pain lessens by at least half. The nerves in your shoulders are a main cause of headaches when they become too compressed by a stressed-out body.
It's difficult to do by yourself, so grab a family member or go get a professional massage! 4951