Wow, that's a difficult question because I'm a selfish, picky bastard and want them both. And I really have no room to talk, I'm not considered anything close to being a hunk. I am, however, in pretty good shape. Like a lot of people, I could stand to lose a few pounds. I've come across a lot of women that are overweight (even obese) but you can tell that they'd be very attractive if they took care of their weight. I'm just being honest here, obesity and/or being fat is just not attractive to me. So, to answer with the two choices you gave me - I'd have to say body. The reason I've come up with this answer is because people can't choose their looks, but they can choose to be in shape and relatively healthy.
@WskyTngoFxtrt: That's fair.So you're going with the "they can't help it" approach. Or the "they would be thin if they worked at it" rationale.I'm the first to admit that I am out of shape. I have been told I have a cute face though. Fortunately, my DH likes a woman with some meat on her bones, so he has what he wants. Except I am a little crazy sometimes. He learns to live with it though. I agree there are women who would be more attractive (by society's definition) if they made some effort to take care of their bodies.Thanks for your honesty!
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