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Family Drama Called My Celly Tonight.....

Family Drama Called My Celly Tonight.....

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by: herron1345 Active Indicator LED Icon 16 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:35pm  
....And for the first time in I can't tell you how long, maybe even a first time occurrence, I straight lost my cool......I had both of my fists closed...  Which is a true first for me...  And it did NOT feel at all good......And my blood pressure was 152/98 Heart Rate at 139 With Palpitations...  Yes, I actually checked......Straight heart-attack zonin' over this ways.... ...It was just horrific...."There was a firefight..." - The Boondock Saints 4951
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lola Active Indicator LED Icon 17
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:37pm  
It's not even Thanksgiving yet!!   4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:38pm  
So sorry. Please try not to take this on and try to calm yourself. 4951
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herron1345 Active Indicator LED Icon 16 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:41pm  
@donnatella.....Dude...  I'm tryin' to mellow myself back into my normal, calm, light-hearted soul.......But I'm still quite shaken honestly.......Whatevs.... ~  This Too Shall Pass ~Smokin' some herb, and given some of my so-called family the bird..... 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:43pm  
@herron1345Kinda glad it's just gonna be me, mom and sis this year..... No drama. Then I'm going to work. Emoticon 4951
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WskyTngoFxtrt Active Indicator LED Icon 10
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:43pm  
Do those family members live in Ferguson? 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:45pm  
@donnatella.....Dude...  I'm tryin' to mellow myself back into my normal, calm, light-hearted soul.......But I'm still quite shaken honestly.......Whatevs.... ~  This Too Shall Pass ~Smokin' some herb, and given some of my so-called family the bird.....
 
@herron1345: If it's any consolation, many more families are in the same boat. Nothing brings out the crazy and family arguments more than the holidays. People in general just lose their **** and their minds over the smallest of things. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 10:48pm  
@hereon1345: I'm so sorry! I kinda had a day like that too. I'm caught in the middle of a feud that has nothing to do with me and I love them both. But dang! One of them gets so defensive when I try to help her sort through things objectively. I want to wash my hands of it, but they just won't let me. Their crap affects me and my kids and it sucks! 4951
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herron1345 Active Indicator LED Icon 16 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:04pm  
@donnatellaI wish it were just as simply as the holidays, sweet chica....  I honestly do.......But when it's your own mother, who in her aging mind comes up with untrue, imaginable scenarios, and then calls her family to manipulate this made-up drama and BS, and it's just really hard on knowing the right thing to do.......It's very embarrassing to me, angering, and saddening, all at the same time....  ....And unfortunately, this isn't the first, second, or even the third time that she's lied and caused complete commotion, but I'm wholeheartedly thinking of just being done after tonight's events.......This is my own mother, whom I am seriously searching my heart about, thinking that I deserve a happy, healthy, and wholesome life...  And she just doesn't fit in with that criteria.......I mean, how much more do I honesty take........When do I say enough is enough, I'm done, and put my husband, myself, and our family first...  ....Her actions are unhealthy and detrimental....  I just don't know what to do.... ...I  just had a cousin that I haven't seen since I was like in the fifth grade call me up, and threaten to come down from North Carolina and whip my as$........I couldn't even get a word in over her cussing, threatening, and yelling complete nonsense at me.......Heck, I didn't even know who was actually calling me up in the first place......And then when I tried to call her back, after getting hung up on, I got the exact same thing...  ....And how convenient that after all of this got started, my mom turns her phone off... 4951
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herron1345 Active Indicator LED Icon 16 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:06pm  
@WskyTngoFxtrt....Mom lives here, dude....  About 10 minutes or so from my crib.......And the inbred, degenerate, ignorant trash that called me this evening lives in North Carolina.......Close enough.... 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:16pm  
@herron1345: I reached a point several years ago where I had to temporally break all communication with my Mom. It hurt like hell but I had to take a stand. Things did eventually work out, but I had to stand up to her, demand her respect and demand she stop talking to me and treating me like I were still a child in her home under her control.
 
Hopefully you can find a similar solution in your family. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:20pm  
@herron1142 dude next time call me girlie. You are always welcome to let go of the family drama cus lord knows as you know I have plenty of my own so I know how it is. Seriously dude you got my number. Always here. 4951
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herron1345 Active Indicator LED Icon 16 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:23pm  
@donnatella....Thank you for sharing that, my friend......But we've tried that, dude......We distance ourselves for a period of time from her, then she comes crying back, turning her lies around to make it seem as though she's somehow the victim, and of course she plays the "you're all the family that I have" sympathy card, in which we forgive, and move on.......But, unfortunately, she repeats the same cycle....  ....And like I mentioned previously, this isn't the first, second, or third go at this......But I'm seriously thinking that it's MY last....  4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:28pm  
Removed By Request 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:33pm  
Well said @Fallon! I've done the same with some of my family members. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Nov 24, '14 11:36pm  
This is why I love you @fallon! 4951
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