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>> Any type of relationship needs balance. One-sided never works well.
@donnatella: I've found that there never is true balance b/w two people.
I'm in debt to some friends and others are in debt to me. I'm not sure that balance b/w two people is necessary, but perhaps an overall karmic balance is.
@Odin: It's never completely balanced, but going for close is the goal. I pick up the tab for drinks tonight, you buy lunch next week, etc. I guess what really counts is the effort to balance and one is not just sitting back and accepting goodies without stepping up to at least make the effort to reciprocate. 4951