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Yep the very things that i love about him, drive me bonkers sometimes. The same with me im sure.
@Nurse3: Same here. I KNOW I drive him crazy and he often drives me plum mad. We are such opposites, but so much alike. I am not happy all the time, but I never expected to be. When he pisses me off I keep my mouth shut because I figure it's not worth it to fight over the little things, better for me to cool off then come back and talk with him when I've cooled off. Most often, he didn't know he had done anything to **** me off. Usually it's just my pissy mood & I'm interpreting an eye roll or sigh that wasn't even there. Been together 48 years, married 46. It sounds like something more is going on that he would suddenly say he's not happy. There have been many times where I wasn't 'happy', but it wasn't up to him to MAKE me happy, I always figured it was up to me to stop being sad. It sounds like he might either be planning a fling or already in a relationship. Maybe some young-thang is flirting with him, making him feel young again.Maybe they should go on an exciting vacation together, something so totally different that it will restore the excitement in their marriage. Making a marriage last a long time sometimes requires an effort...from both partners. I feel so bad for your friend to have her husband announce such horrible news.Â
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