Lillabeth was a member of the other board who passed away recently. Some real bottom feeders feel they are entitled to all the details of her death -- despite the fact that they didn't give two hoots about her when she was alive. The thing is, she has young children, and out of respect for that, details do not need to be discussed openly. Not because there is anything to it, just because it doesn't need to be discussed. It's a really, really disgusting thing the OP is doing and whoever this person is really needs to get some help.
@HotterThanYou:
Yeah, I can respect that. 4951