this is one of those questions that cant really be answered.
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I can absolutely be friends with a chick and not ruin her for other men. I may "flirt" or say sexual things to the chicks (and some dudes) on this board but if I knew you in real life all that would stop.
@mm4731:
But her stepping out or being willing to step out isn't a pre-requisite to you being real friends, though, would it? Or is it once you find that out, you are basically done with talking except for cordial greetings etc.?
Don't get me wrong, I love chatting, texting, PMs, even a call or two, even a bit of harmless flirting, but with a few exceptions, once they find out there's no sex for them, it's an all or nothing "friendship" ends quickly and suddenly it's run its course. Sort of reminds me of high school.
My co-worker friends in this morning's discussion are in the same boat. There seems to be a definite agenda in the conversations they have with men, no matter what the format, and once they say "hey, no sex here, but love the chat and friendship" it's done. 4951