I would be furious about the driving and video taping part. The pictures I would just ask to see them first and then give my consent to post them.
@spookfanatic: This. I didn't have the fvideo or driving part happen, but I had the pic on a FB page one - just one pic, but it caught me offguard. It was harmless - I know she didn't think twice - she was just posting a pic from her job and thought my kid was doing something cute. But, just address it if it makes you uncomfortable and if it happens again, then the nany is not the right fit.
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