First date?
If so, just make it informal and meet for coffee. Don't let first impressions affect you as they are often wrong. Give it an hour at least.
Then, plan a day trip if you don't creep her out (and vice versa).
You really get to know someone when you are stuck with them for a day or so. Removes false initial impression errors as well.
Even better if the trip is an imperfect adventure (meaning at least one thing goes tragically wrong). You'll either bond over it or she'll have an "issue" and you'll see the real person behind the shell.
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