We had this issue in Kindergarden. A little boy was in my DD's daycare and her class at school. He liked her and when she wouldn't play with him, he shoved her into a locker, pushed her head into a pole which in turn broke her glasses and pushed her, punched her, teased her or called her names anytime he wanted.
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I told my DD the same thing, next time he touches you haul off and hit him. He will stop.
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I also told the teacher and the daycare. The daycare told me that my DD would be in trouble if she hit him. I told them that she has MY permission to hit him only if he hits first and she would NOT be in trouble.Â
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I also told his mother that if he ever touched my DD again he was going to be sorry because she was going to kick his
@ss and make him look stupid and that she better advise him of this quickly. Luckily he never touched her again and we switched daycares not long after this.
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My DH bought her a puching bag and gloves for her birthday in Kindergarden and she used to beat the heck out of that thing. 4951