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by: bp2018 Active Indicator LED Icon 10 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Apr 16, '14 8:27pm  
Reality doesn't really sink in that someone has passed away, until you attend their wake or funeral. It's been a week since my cousin passed, and today was her memorial. Still doesn't even feel real sometimes, but today that reality hit hard. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 16, '14 8:29pm  
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bp2018 Active Indicator LED Icon 10 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Apr 16, '14 8:31pm  
Yeah, little by little it will sink in.  I think it's your mind's way of gradual acceptance.  I'm sorry for your loss.
 
@SandyKnee:
More than likely. I'd rather it just all hit me at once so I can cry and get all ugly and get it out of my system. I tend to move on better that way. All in time I suppose.
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 16, '14 8:39pm  
Reality doesn't really sink in that someone has passed away, until you attend their wake or funeral. It's been a week since my cousin passed, and today was her memorial. Still doesn't even feel real sometimes, but today that reality hit hard.
 
@bp2018: I'm sorry. What a hard day this must have been for you. Have some wine, put your feet up and enjoy a restful evening.
 
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bp2018 Active Indicator LED Icon 10 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Apr 16, '14 8:41pm  
@bp2018: I'm sorry. What a hard day this must have been for you. Have some wine, put your feet up and enjoy a restful evening.
 
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@topcat:
Thanks. I'm trying. It's like I have all this, I guess you can call it anxious, energy. I need to keep moving and find some way to burn it all off.
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 16, '14 10:14pm  
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bp2018 Active Indicator LED Icon 10 OP 
~ 9 years ago   Apr 16, '14 11:29pm  
@bp2018, I know what you mean.  I lost a dear friend last year.  Even after a year, when I see her email or phone number it hits me like a ton of bricks.  But for the life of me I can't delete either one.In my mind she is still at home.  And when I realize I can't call her, well, it just sucks.She was one of my first friends when I moved to Kingwood.  She taught me how to order at Starbucks - lol.  I am sorry for your loss, Heaven got another angel.
 
@Fallon:
Thank you, and yes they sure did get another angel. I am sorry for your loss as well. Unfortunately, time doesn't always completely heal all wounds. At least we were both blessed with the time we DID have with our loved ones. I was thinking about her on my way home, and all of a sudden one of the songs we used to sing to each other all the time came on the radio. I hardly ever hear that anymore, so I just took that as a sign from her telling me to get over it and be happy. She hated to see people sad. Sounds silly, but it's stuff like that, that helps me get through everything.
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 7:00am  
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I think it's more difficult when the person is young and it's an unexpected passing. It helps to have a family support system.  Let me know if you feel like venting or need a drinking buddy Emoticon 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 7:03am  
It's been about 10 years since my FIL died and it still hits me every once in a while.  He was such a loving, great man.  I sorry about your loss. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 8:50am  
Especially in this day and age - I've lost 3-4 friends over the last 3 years. Still have their profiles on Facebook, still have emails from them. Sorry for your loss. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 8:55am  
have their profiles on Facebook, still have emails from them.
 
@scamp: I was thinking about that as well.
Yes, it's a strange feeling to see a departed loved one on FB. But it's also kind of nice too. 4951
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 9:36am  
Reality doesn't really sink in that someone has passed away, until you attend their wake or funeral. It's been a week since my cousin passed, and today was her memorial. Still doesn't even feel real sometimes, but today that reality hit hard.
 
@bp2018: I'm sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel. I just lost my uncle unexpectedly Sunday and his funeral isn't til Tuesday. Still doesn't seem real to me; I keep going through the cycle of disbelief, shock and sadness. And today's my birthday and it really doesn't feel like it.
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 11:03am  

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>> Reality doesn't really sink in that someone has passed away, until you attend their wake or funeral. It's been a week since my cousin passed, and today was her memorial. Still doesn't even feel real sometimes, but today that reality hit hard.
 
@bp2018: I'm sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel. I just lost my uncle unexpectedly Sunday and his funeral isn't til Tuesday. Still doesn't seem real to me; I keep going through the cycle of disbelief, shock and sadness. And today's my birthday and it really doesn't feel like it.
 
@lilmama09:
I'm terribly sorry to hear about your uncle. If you need someone to talk to, just message me. Seems like it's just been a bad month for a lot of people.
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 2:55pm  
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~ 9 years ago   Apr 17, '14 3:33pm  
@lilmama09 Happy Birthday to you.  Sorry it is a sad one for you.
 
@Fallon: Thanks. My co-workers are making it a better day Emoticon
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