He is a negative example. Those are probably more important in life because you learn more by mistakes than successes. You are young. The sad pathetic part would be if you had been married him and years and kids later realized it.
@BooBear: hey thats a good point. I am sorry i know my problems dont seem huge. they are huge to me of course. it just all sucks. but it could of been worse you are right. thank goodness i realized it now.
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