Try a bunch out. No real Christian is going to turn you away. If they do, you'll have some answers.
I think you are wise not to be overly affectionate in public. Just be yourselves. But be respectful. Be classy. Churches should be welcoming you with love, if not, you won't want to be there any how.
If God is love, and you aren't getting that impression, best to move on any way. Even if someone is opposed to homosexuality as a personal opinion, that should not trump their believe in doing unto others and loving your neighbor as yourself. 4951