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by: BowtieGuy Active Indicator LED Icon 5 OP 
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:29pm  
........should I expect any ?.....wats the most common,& how can I avoid any ? 4951
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SandyKnee Active Indicator LED Icon 12
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:32pm  
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mrsames77 Active Indicator LED Icon 2
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:36pm  
Ohh @SandyKnee you are so mean!! lolI get pretty upset if I feel he isn't listening to me and I have to repeat myself a few times. Even if it isn't as important to you as it is to her, just take a minute and listen!  4951
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BowtieGuy Active Indicator LED Icon 5 OP 
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:38pm  
Ohh @SandyKnee you are so mean!! lolI get pretty upset if I feel he isn't listening to me and I have to repeat myself a few times. Even if it isn't as important to you as it is to her, just take a minute and listen! 
 
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I'm sorry, were u saying something ? 4951
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mrsames77 Active Indicator LED Icon 2
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:39pm  
*sigh* you're gonna be a great husband 4951
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BowtieGuy Active Indicator LED Icon 5 OP 
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:40pm  
*sigh* you're gonna be a great husband
 
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Thanks,I've had a few "practice wives"..... 4951
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Nurse3 Active Indicator LED Icon 10
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:41pm  
You better be nice to her!!  She's got scissors ya know! LOL 4951
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BowtieGuy Active Indicator LED Icon 5 OP 
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 8:54pm  
You better be nice to her!!  She's got scissors ya know! LOL
 
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Good point (pun intended)....those are some expensive scissors too....can u believe she has NEVER cut my hair ? 4951
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donnatella Active Indicator LED Icon 13 Forum Moderator
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 9:42pm  
Most fights are over money.  Have separate accounts: yours, mine and ours, where each of you has a stash of a little mad money that requires no justification or explanation.  That will prevent a lot of problems. 4951
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Heathur Active Indicator LED Icon 12
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 9:58pm  
To avoid problems, be true. I don't just mean be faithful, but keep her #1. Be the person she can always count on & back her up. Be there for her physically, mentally, & emotionally. Be her friend & be there just to be with her. Share things with her. Share your day, stories, hobbies, & your life in general. Be respectful. Never demean her, don't call her names, don't yell for no reason, & remember to say please & thank you. Do things without her asking, open her door for her, order her meal for her (ask her what she wants of course). Do little things to let her know you love her. Care about her as well as the marriage as a whole, even when you're sad or angry. And tell her you care! Verbal reassurance means more to women than a lot of men realize. Sometimes you're going to have to bite your tongue when you'd rather not or agree with something you usually wouldn't simply to back her up, but it makes her happy & she will do the same for you. Plus you do those things just because you love her. Be patient & understanding, even when it's most difficult. Don't just tell her you love her (& never stop telling her), but show her. Surprise her with a small gift or flowers occasionally, & do things that are special to both of you. Listen when she talks, pay attention, & pick up on her subtleties. Be open. She may have opinions or ideas you don't want to hear. You don't necessarily have to agree with those things, but try not to argue either. Most importantly, never stop pursuing her. These are all things that my own DH does for me just as I do for him. It all just becomes second nature when you love someone. You really do get what you give in any good relationship. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness! 4951
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Heathur Active Indicator LED Icon 12
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 9:59pm  
And don't be stingy with oral. Emoticon 4951
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BooBear Active Indicator LED Icon 16
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 10:24pm  
Be nice. Dont hold a grudge or spend money you dont have and toss her around often. Its simple. 4951
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WJo Active Indicator LED Icon 13
~ 10 years ago   Jan 15, '14 11:48pm  
don't keep secrets from one another do not spend anything over $25.00 without  discussing it with each other 1stdo not stay out late without calling in advancealways ask if your spouse wants to go with you no matter where it is if you do all of this & help around the house you should do okay if not prepare for a fight (LMAO) 4951
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jax Active Indicator LED Icon 16
~ 10 years ago   Jan 16, '14 12:22am  
Gluck. You'll need it.
 
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tguid18 Active Indicator LED Icon
~ 10 years ago   Jan 16, '14 2:49am  
Trust, the foundation of a relationship.
I believe the advice of separate accounts is wrong, go old school, go together. Pull in the same direction in life. When building the trust a funny thing happens, respect, admiration , just shows up, I just don't think that you will be on your front porch with your spouse in your golden years asking, how much you got in your checking account, instead you will both bask in the glory of what you both accomplished together.
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~ 10 years ago   Jan 16, '14 6:00am  
don't keep secrets from one another do not spend anything over $25.00 without  discussing it with each other 1stdo not stay out late without calling in advancealways ask if your spouse wants to go with you no matter where it is if you do all of this & help around the house you should do okay if not prepare for a fight (LMAO)
 
@WJo: $25? Really? She'd be on the phone with me all the time.
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